Meeting Girls in Class – Round 2
We earlier discussed the topic of picking up college girls in class. This was more focused on the logistics of the different types of classes (lectures, tutorials and labs). Below is a more rounded article on the concepts of attraction and interaction that will flow across all classroom environments.
One of the strongest ways of getting a girl from your class is to get her to like you by observing you. This is different to direct game where you will interact directly with the girl to get her attention and attraction. There are many things you can do to subtly make that girl (or many girls) in your class become interested. These actions may not be enough to actually get the girl but they will put you on the right path and make her more receptive to interacting with you in the future.
What to do in class to gain the attention of the girls
Participate in class
Speak up, show you’re confident and engaging. Don’t be the teacher’s pet and answer every question, don’t come across as a try hard and try to talk for the whole class, just talk 2 or 3 times during the class. You will be surprised how few people actually speak up. Answer some of the questions the teacher asks, say a funny joke every now and then, get the teacher to like you and joke with you. Don’t be rude or obnoxious, but if there is something you can make a funny joke about do it. Ask if he will give you extra marks for washing his car or if you can do your economics assignment on the lemonade stand you used to run when you were 8. Being funny but still answering questions and being interactive will make the teacher like you. You are bringing a positive energy to the class and without slacking off.
Make friends
Speak to everyone in the room. Remember their names and things about them after you see them. A quick statement like ‘hey man, I’m Vincent, how was your weekend?’ can easily open a conversation. Try repeating people’s names 1-3 times in the first conversation, this will help you remember the name. If he told you he went hiking, next week ask him if he went hiking again. Also talk to people in the hallway before class while you are waiting outside. Walk with people after class to the next class or bus stop. Be interested in what they’re saying, but also talk about some of the cool stuff you’re doing. Talk about parties, class, sport and events that are going on. If you know of a good bar or event coming up (or that happens weekly) tell people to drop by.
Become a leader
This will follow naturally once you start doing the above two things, but being the leader, connector, organiser will always reflect positively in the eyes of the women.
How to tell girls are becoming attracted
You will start to gain looks in class from the girls if you keep the above behaviours up. Make sure you’re always smiling, staying positive and in a good mood. If you come into class grumpy and negative it’s not going to help your cause. You will also notice that girls will be very receptive to you when you start a conversation. If you walk up in the hallway and there is a hot girl you haven’t spoken to yet, walk up and say hey. At the start of the semester she may just respond with ‘hey’. After a few weeks of showing you are a cool and sociable guy with everyone in the class, she may respond with ‘hey, how are you? What have you been up to?’ This is a sign she is becoming more attracted.
What to do when you have attraction
Once a girl is more open to having a conversation with you, say, in the hallway, continue the conversation into the classroom and sit next to her. During class you can start to play fun games like tick tac toe, hang man (make the words funny or flirty like – ‘I like Vincent’), dots etc…
Go deeper into your conversations; start to get to know people better. Find out about their lives, interests, hobbies and passions. Relate and reward.
Finally, suggest meeting up outside of class. Study groups, parties, sport events, bars, etc…
You can’t hit on a girl in class. That’s just socially awkward. The goal in class is to get them to meet you at a later date. The ideal would be to just go for lunch with the girl alone after class, but if you have another class straight after, organise to meet her somewhere else as mentioned above. Also, make sure you are social with everyone in the class, not just her. Be friendly. Add everyone in your class to Facebook and update where you are headed when you’re going out. You might just start bumping into the girls 
Related posts:
- Meeting Girls in Class
- Meeting Girls while Travelling – Transport
- Meeting Girls in College Social Clubs
- Meeting Girls through your Social Circle
- Getting Past the Opener (Transitioning and Changing Topic)
- Starting a Conversation
- Approaching Girls in the Library
- Being Social in College
- How to Start a Conversation with a Girl
- Pick Up Lines to use on Girls
