Being Social in College
Being social and having a great group of friends is a key factor when attracting girls in college. The tricky situation with college against randomly meeting girls on the street on in a bar is that in college you will run into the same people over and over. Plus they will have a connection to you in some way meaning they may know things about you through their friends. They may know you are a jock or a geek, who you hang out with, who you’ve dated before; important things to consider when building an attractive personality.
If you have a social circle of high value friends, you’re more likely to get girls (think the football team). Depending on your background, it may difficult to just walk and make friends with the football team. But if you work slow and stead you will be able to build a group of friends, and off that group expand into a bigger group with more value.
If you are living on a dorm (as opposed to a frat) it may be difficult to expand your social circle. Things are little less social and more isolated.
Start off by hanging outside where people are. If you stay in your room, chances you will meet new people are zero. Hang out in the café, quad or dorm common rooms. Be fun and entertaining. Smile at people that walk past. Introduce yourself to everybody. Assume that everyone in college is out to make new friends and have a good time (because they actually are!).
To build relationships with the people you will need to be seen over and over again. Not just once for 5 minutes. When you meet someone for the first time don’t smother them and be pushy to be their friend. Just act like a cool guy. Give value. Small talk about funny stuff or cool things that are happening around campus like parties, or the cute girl sitting in the corner. Just small stuff. Try and give value straight away by inviting them to join you in a game of sports, to a party or bar that’s supposed to be good.
When in class, talk about homework, the teachers funny pants, and the same parties, girls, sports stuff. The more people you know the better. Once you see people over and over you will start to develop relationships. Keep inviting new people to all the events you’re going to. Soon, invitations will start coming back. You will build yourself an interesting and entertaining lifestyle with lots of friends. A lifestyle that will naturally include girls you can approach.
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