Beautiful Women are People Too
There was a time in my life when I couldn’t approach a beautiful woman even if my life depended on it. It was a horrible and painful chapter in my life and I feel sad every time I think about it. But one day I realized something… Beautiful women are people too! They have fears like everyone else and they even get nervous sometimes!
The truth is that most women, even the most beautiful ones, are often very insecure. They always know someone that’s better looking than them and they often acquire this level of physical perfection because they felt or still feel inadequate…
One of the reasons why guys are unsuccessful when it comes to approaching beautiful women is that they put the girl on a pedestal. They give the girl extra value because of her physical beauty. You have to remember that beautiful women are being put on a pedestal every single day and they’re desperately looking for someone with whom they can talk on the same level.
If you’re afraid to approach beautiful women, here’s a little mental trick that can help you get rid of some of that “pedestal mindset”. Try to picture the girl you’re about to approach doing something really nasty, like sitting on the can or something, or imagine her having the most horrible breath in the world. I know this might seem a little strange to you, but believe me, this mental image will automatically knock her off your mental pedestal and ease up your approach.
A lot of guys fail to approach beautiful women because they have self-limiting beliefs like: “she’s way out of my league” or “there’s no way a girl like this would ever love me” These limiting beliefs will get you nowhere, so you should be on the lookout for any negative beliefs you may have and turn them around instantly.
If you want to get rid of these limiting beliefs, you have to pay close attention to your thoughts right before you approach a beautiful woman. Next, you have to write down each and every one of these beliefs on a piece of paper. It’s very important that you write the exact same words that are popping into your head right before you approach women if you want this method to be successful.
Next, you have to replace these limiting beliefs with empowering ones. To do that you’ll have to create a series of affirmation statements that you’ll recite everyday until you get the results you want.
Per instance, if your negative belief is:
“I don’t know how to start a conversation with women”
Your positive affirmation should read something like this:
“I’m always full of fun stories and people love my company. Women seem to be captivated by my words and I always leave them begging for more”
Make sure that you repeat your affirmations at least 2 to 3 times a day for them to be efficient. Also make sure that you recite them every time you go out to meet women. If you do it correctly and play close attention to the negative beliefs that pop into your mind when you approach women, your success in the field will improve dramatically.
So remember that beautiful women are just like you and me. They’re just looking for someone who’s confident enough to walk up and talk to them like any regular human being. So next time you see a beautiful woman and get that feeling in the pit of your stomach, go for it! She might be more scared of you than you are of her…
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